My Sexy Secret Life

It takes two xx

So … l’ve been thinking about when to return to my naughty adventures and l think l’m going to err on the side of caution and wait until l’ve had both my jabs. I appreciate that this means we’ll have even longer to wait until l do get back but it’s nice to have things to look forward to! XxXx

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Meeting Up XxXx

l’m really hoping to resume my naughty trips to London this Spring time however l’m not making any plans just yet, l’m waiting to see what happens before booking anything- the government has changed their mind so many times already and l will return once the current guidelines become definite – I’ve grown rather wary of making plans only to have to cancel them at the last minute! Looking forward to seeing you whenever that might be. Take care in the meantime. XxXx

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Christmas Kisses XxXx

I hope that as you’re reading this, it means that you are both safe and well.

I’ve been thinking a lot about what positives l can draw from 2020 and to be honest- it’s been hard! But the reasons l can be grateful for are…

I’ve learnt to be much more mindful of the little everyday things in life, that if l really focus on are such a blessing- a greater appreciation of nature, birdsong, a sunny day, a starry nights sky, a smile from a stranger (lighting up their eyes, lips hidden by a mask), a wholesome, home cooked meal, a heartfelt message from a dear friend….

And whilst l haven’t been able to indulge in many naughty adventures this year the ones that l have had have been lots of fun! 😉 and I’m hoping for many more opportunities to enjoy myself in 2021! Fingers crossed…..

Overall, with the benefit of hindsight this year, despite the ups and downs – l still appreciate what l have and feel grateful to lead the life that l do. l hope that the same is true for you too.

Here’s me wishing you the best Christmas you can imagine right now and let’s hope for a much better New Year.

Sending you lots of kisses from afar!
Charlotte XxXx

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Current Plans XxXx

I hope this finds you safe and well. I’m good, a tad frustrated with these uncertain times but it can’t be helped!


I was planning to make another trip into London before Christmas but l’m going to wait and see for now, until the current lockdown dates have been and gone and the guidelines for December are published thereafter. 


It would be lovely to have some naughty adventures to look forward to before 2020 but if it’s not to be then l already know that my New Years Resolution is …. to have more fun!! I’m guessing l won’t be the only one … See you soon l hope!

Charlotte XxXx

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Locking Down!


I had such a lovely time visiting London during the Autumn, thank you so much for every one who came to see me and made it so special! I was really looking forward to a return visit in November but those plans have now been unfortunately put on hold as we enter our next, and hopefully much shorter lockdown. While l am very sad not to continue my naughty adventures for now, l wish you and your loved ones all the best during these challenging times and hope to see you in December. Stay safe and well until we can meet again! XxXx

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My Current COVID Strategy

Intimacy is more important than ever during these extraordinary times, and l will be taking practical, common sense steps to minimise risk and help us to stay safe and well.

These measures will be:

~ Wearing a mask and socially distancing in all public places.


~ Visiting London for one week to see friends, followed by two weeks of self isolation at home to minimise risk.


~ Safe Sex and limited visitors (as always!).


~ Entertaining from a Private Apartment (with only me doing the cleaning and housekeeping!) and regularly opening windows to improve ventilation.


~ Incall appointments only.


~ l will not be using public transport at any time – all my journeys will be undertaken by private car.

~ No Foreign Travel. Any holidays will be taken within the UK, to areas which are not under lockdown, and to be followed by a two week self isolating period at home before any further visits to London.

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Future Plans

What a funny week this has been! I was really hoping that we’d be getting back to a new version of ‘normal’ after lockdown but with the recently introduced ‘rule of six’ coming into play a little while ago l did wonder whether more bad news was a foot! However with our glorious ‘end of Summer’ heatwave and after a brief and socially distanced jaunt to the English coast, l was feeling rested and excited to begin another start to the week in London’s Victoria… and l have had fun! I even found my very own dedicated street sign!

It did seem as though that by late Wednesday afternoon (despite watching a bustling and joyful Wedding party complete with real bagpipes and an old transport for London bus to take its revellers on to the next destination, which was so lovely to see – that they’d managed to get married in the sunshine on a glorious afternoon before the rules denied them their desired nuptials celebration!) that change was soon to come afoot… which it did, the afternoon sun transmuted to an Autumnal feeling evening and l waited with bated breath to see just what plans the government had next to unveil… once again l was watching Boris on the telly and it felt so surreal. But here we are, it feels like we have taken two steps forward and three steps back again! And I doubt that things are going to change much anytime soon unfortunately.

I was very good during the first National lockdown and a bit beyond that too – l stayed at home for as long as possible- the last six months in fact but l simply cannot bare the idea of facing another six months of the same dreary monotony! So l’ve come up with a new plan. I will be staying in London for a week at a time to see friends then self isolating for the next two weeks after that.

I’ve just had a wonderful time in London enjoying some much needed freedom (thank you to the lovely people who made it so special, you know who you are!) and so it’s now back to two weeks of counting the days at home until next time! Having left Pimlico this Saturday morning (by car, not public transport) I will next be in London the week beginning the 12th of October at my new favourite location in Victoria, a short walk from Pimlico Tube Station.

As always l will be seeing a very limited number of lovers in order to savour my naughty adventures …. and l am very much looking forward to it! It’s so important in times like these to make memories to treasure, do let me know if you fancy joining me! Xxxx

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Hope To See You Soon XxXx

I hope that life is treating you well and that lockdown wasn’t too hard on you. Such strange times and still they go on!


My lockdown wasn’t too bad, boring more than anything but l can’t complain really. My list of jobs that l have been avoiding for ages has shortened quite considerably!


Now that things are getting a little bit back to normal l think it’s high time to have some totally deserved and very much needed fun!

l am returning to London come mid September (week beginning the 21st) and l will be based in Victoria.

Do let me know if you would like to join me and l look forward to seeing you soon! Xxxxx