It’s my belief that if we all were truly sexually liberated and free there would be no shame in paying for sex – for the simple fact that it makes us feel better. I am aware however and saddened by the fact that many of my clients feel a deep seated sense of guilt about their visits to me.
Still, in a culture which has epitomized the culture of shame and fear to control society – it’s an unfortunate truth that many of us feel that we cannot be accepted in our entirety, our wants, our dreams, our sexuality and own unique selves must be hidden, in fear of the fact that they maybe used as tools to hurt and destroy us. Our so called weaknesses are constantly being sought to be exploited.
The silly thing – is we all have weaknesses and moments in time when we seek and need nurture and that’s all part of being human. I think one of the strongest things we can do in times of trouble is to allow ourselves to be vulnerable, to seek out those who can help us without judgement, through warm acceptance, intimacy and loving touch – it can boost us up and bring us joy.
