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New Years Resolutions

My Resolutions Pocket Notebook Set With Gold Foil

I don’t do the whole New Years Resolutions, New Lifestyle thing. January is a grey, cold, horrible month and making it harder seems a tad cruel to onself. I prefer to make my big changes in the Spring when the flowers start poking their heads out of the ground – by the time I see daffodils I’m postively exultant!

Anyway if I find myself getting a little of the January blues I do things which always make me feel better – I take a Vitamin D supplement and count my blessings by practicising gratitude. The diet and new exercise program will start in March and I’m looking forward to them – but for now what I’m most grateful for is all the lovely people that come and share my bed, sex also makes me feel very happy 🙂

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The Unfortunate Shame

It’s my belief that if we all were truly sexually liberated and free there would be no shame in paying for sex – for the simple fact that it makes us feel better. I am aware however and saddened by the fact that many of my clients feel a deep seated sense of guilt about their visits to me.

Still, in a culture which has epitomized the culture of shame and fear to control society – it’s an unfortunate truth that many of us feel that we cannot be accepted in our entirety, our wants, our dreams, our sexuality and own unique selves must be hidden, in fear of the fact that they maybe used as tools to hurt and destroy us. Our so called weaknesses are constantly being sought to be exploited.

The silly thing – is we all have weaknesses and moments in time when we seek and need nurture and that’s all part of being human. I think one of the strongest things we can do in times of trouble is to allow ourselves to be vulnerable, to seek out those who can help us without judgement, through warm acceptance, intimacy and loving touch – it can boost us up and bring us joy.
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New Year, New Years Resolution…

As any one who knows me well will know – I don’t usually do New Years Resoultions; however I am going to make one this year  …. which is to keep my new erotic photography blog up to date with some of my favourite sexy pics 🙂

You can find it here: The London Libertine or via the erotic photography tab on my website … enjoy! 😉

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Winter Celebrations

Ah Winter. Halloween, Bonfire Night and Christmas to look forward to……

I am desperately trying to resist not ‘decorating’ my flat for Halloween. Although I promise to treat rather than trick any visitors coming to mine around Halloween Time.
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Bonfire Night at my parents village is always fun… there are a few ex military types in charge of the fire works (one of whom I really fancy and we do flirt but he is married and it’s a bit too close to home to end up ‘accidentally’ sucking his cock, as much as I would like to) who make sure things always go off with a big bang! Mothers delicious but lethal cider should be ready by then too (to be treated with extreme caution on account of unmeasured but deceptively high levels of alcohol) there are drunken casualties ever year.. those who know it sip it!
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Then there’s Christmas; now gentlemen I suggest ditching the Mistletoe this year and gifting your partner some of this instead… 😉 If you’re single then maybe attach some Mistletoe around it but don’t go blaming me if you get a slap!
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Ladies, I’d recommend sticking to somewhat more traditional methods 😉 although actually getting it inked may be a touch too far for most!
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Things that Bite and Sting!

lady birdI have been fairly unlucky in my life when it comes to things that bite and sting! And some you might never have known actually do bite!

Off land I have been bitten by a fish (more than once!) while floating about in the sea and I have also been stung a jelly fish, thankfully not the dangerous kind but it still really hurt!

I have been stung by numerous wasps in a variety of situations, getting in to bed, putting on a shoe and in a post office Que to name but a few, at this point I am so used to it that it doesn’t even hurt that much but it’s still something that I try to avoid!

I have been stung by a bee twice; the first time during a shoe less stroll in a park with an ex boyfriend after fucking in some long grass, as bee sting allergies run in my family and having watched the film ‘My Girl’ as a kid (part of the story is about a boy dying from bee stings due to an allergy) I was quite worried it would kill me!
Although obviously I am here now writing this, so you’ll know that it didn’t and I am quite relieved to say, neither did it have any side affects apart from a bemused ex boyfriend who couldn’t really understand what the fuss was about and a sore foot!

I was also stung by a bee on the neck more recently walking down South Bank, thankfully some very kind shop girls pulled the sting out but I did have a lump on my neck for several days afterwards.

I got bitten by a considerable amount of the inhabitants of an ants nest that I sat and wee’d on as a child (learnt my lesson there!) and by red ants in a forest during a photo shoot, that flippin’ hurts I can tell you! I was also bitten on the breast by a lady bird while in the bath and by a spider during another photo shoot.

Of course mosquito’s love me too….and I have also been bitten/stung by a horse fly.

Growing up I was bitten by my friends gerbil, my sisters hamster (terrible pets for children in my opinion) and the family cat (the latter I admit I deserved; cats do not enjoy being dressed up as babies!). An ex boyfriends dog used to bite me too but he had jealously issues that we worked on and once they were resolved that stopped thankfully. I also had a narrow escape from being bitten by a rat (it’s a funny story, ask me if you meet me!).

There are a few things that I have yet to be stung/bitten by of which I am wary. These include dragon flies (pretty but evil); Daddy Long Legs (yes they do sting, really!) and leaf beetles.

I really hope that when it comes to the biters and the stingers in this world that you will never be quite just as unlucky!